Identify

I wonder about this human need to identify ourselves with certain groups. Man has always done so and will continue. Sometimes we even fight over this identity and make claims to certain attributes. These claims are substantiated by the thinnest threads of evidence or provenance. In some cases we begin by refuting a relationship to a particular group, but later in life embrace that designation. That is easily explained by the rise and fall of popular culture but why the need in the first place. That need is not as easily understood or explained.

Where I grew up there has long been a discussion about this. More correctly, a discussion about who belongs or doesn't belong to a specific group. The name of the group is not of importance and those effected know what it is. Fifty years ago many did not want to be thought of as members of this group but it has gained in popularity since then. Now, the majority wish to be labeled in this way. An amusing twist to those that have been on both sides of that fence. 

I believe this need to be identified with a certain grouping is because one wishes to have the attributes attributed to that group. The rise and fall of " commendable " or " correct " attributes would explain the switching of allegiance. The public view of right and wrong definitely changes throughout the years. This is easily seen by anyone that's pays even the slightest attention to society. Sociologists make a career out of studying this. With me it is just a matter of curiosity. A source of amusement.

The content of your character defines who you are. Despite any exertions to the contrary, your true character will be revealed to those that are close to you. These people will place you in a certain grouping which may, or may not, be the grouping you wish. Others may be fooled by appearances but not these people. We do not get to choose our designation so we should not attempt to alter that choice. We can only be ourselves. But then maybe it is this desire to be identified with a certain group or grouping that makes us who we are ? Is it this need that provides our motivations ? Do we switch allegiance as we grow ? It would certainly seem so. And that, is a good thing. The ultimate goal is to become comfortable with ourselves. That is the key to it all. If we achieve that goal, we can live in contentment. Then we no longer need concern ourselves with the machinations of man, but can concentrate on the eternal. Get on with our lives.