In the past tense

The arrangements have been made. Tom will be laid to rest on Friday. It will be the last time we see his physical body but his presence will remain with us.How many lives has he touched since his birth in 1924 ? The number, if even possible to count, would be staggering. Some lives he but brushed against, while others he transformed. He himself changed over the years,as do we all. Those that knew him fifty years ago would have been surprised to have known him just ten years ago. I only knew him in his aged years as a retired man. I knew little of his youth, of his loves or passions. Talking to him was a trip down memory lane. He spoke of what used to be and seldom of what the future may bring. It becomes that way for us all. Now the time has arrived to say words for him. We can only speak for him in the past tense. What words should we choose ? The words are meant for those he leaves behind. The words should offer comfort and consolation. We do not need to remind those that knew him and loved him of his accomplishments in life ? Those of us fortunate enough to have experienced him, need no reminders. He left an impression upon our souls that will be felt forever. Poets,writers and dreamers have tried over ages to find words to say, without success. Mere words cannot fill the void left to us, only our continued love can do that. Tom will be, forever loved.